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have a conversation vs. holding a sales interrogation!

I don’t know about you, but if I feel like I’m sitting on an uncomfortable metal chair, in a concrete block room, with a bright white spotlight shining on me – I’m not very comfortable.

And comfortable is what I want to be in order to put me in a buying frame of mind.

Step 1 to making someone comfortable is to ask open ended questions, a few of my favorites include:

my five favorite people prospecting questions:

  1. Tell me a little about how what you do every day relates to ___….
  2. Most people I talk with have more than a few priorities – what are the Top 3 you’re working on right now?
  3. When looking at __, what result would you like to have that’s currently missing?
  4. Why is that important to you?
  5. What criteria do you use to choose your _ vendors?

Now my five favorite deal qualifying questions:

  1. What is your role in all this?
  2. What are you hoping to accomplish?
  3. After we create a solution together, how will you decide if it is the best one?
  4. How does the process work once you’ve decided on a solution?
  5. What happens next?

BONUS QUESTION = Is there anything else I can do for you today?

Step 2 is to remember the only reason to ask questions is to have the opportunity to listen to their answers!

There are two barriers to listening that I want to share with you today:
* The first is our preconceptions – as we go into every conversation there are assumptions we have on how we expect the other person to react.


REMEMBER – many times you don’t get what you want you get what you expect.


* On a cold call, most people – no matter how good they are in sales – go in with an expectation of resistance or DISinterest; not surprising that ends up what we hear that on the call.


Instead – go in w/the idea people need what you do! Now our brains are tuned into that idea.
You will be amazed at how many business opportunities you will hear!

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